Eloping vs. Wedding: 5 Reasons You Might Consider Eloping

If you’re wrestling with the decision between eloping vs. wedding, you’re definitely not alone!! As a wedding photographer who’s seen it all, know that what ever type of way you choose to get married will be unique. But if you’re leaning towards something more intimate, eloping might be a great option! And, I fully agree with whatever decision you think is best for YOU!

Think of eloping not as just sneaking off to tie the knot (although this is a fun perk!); it’s about creating a day that feels special to you and your partner. As it should be, right?!? Eloping allows you to ditch the guest lists and worrying about place settings. Instead focus only on planning a day you and your partner will enjoy and remember forever. When picking out where you want to elope, the possibilities are truly endless! And we love that! Because that means your day can be the exact way you want it! You could choose a beach in Florida, or an Italy elopement—just you, your partner, and maybe a few loved ones if they are lucky.

If You’re Not Sure About Eloping vs. Wedding This Ones For You

It’s these moments that I absolutely love to capture as a destination wedding photographer!! It is the most beautiful moment I get to share with you two!! The ones that are super personal for my couples because they plan their day around committing to one another. If you’re trying to decide if you should plan a big wedding, take a look at these five reasons you might consider eloping instead. I think you may want to actually elope 😉

1. Intimacy: Eloping allows you to focus on each other without all of the added family drama and pressure that often come with weddings. Because no one wants a parent trying to take control of who they invite to their own wedding. Eloping can make your wedding day feel more personal and special since it’s just about your commitment to each other. No need to worry about your mom’s inviting her coworker and your old baby sitter to your special day.
2. Cost-Effective: As someone in the industry, trust me I get it. Weddings can be super expensive, and the costs add up quickly. Eloping can really cut down your expenses. This allow you to free up your budget to splurge on things that are most important to you, like a honeymoon or hiring me as your photographer to capture the moment.
3. Memorable Locations: Eloping allows you to choose from so many unique locations that might not be doable for larger groups. Whether it’s a quiet beach or a trip abroad, you can choose a location that you and your partner love without worrying about whether everyone will be able to get there.
4. Less Stress: Planning a big wedding can be stressful with all the details, expectations, and logistics. Eloping makes this process so much easier! This allows you to enjoy the excitement of getting married without the hassle of planning a large event.
5. An Adventure: Eloping can be an adventure that sets the tone for your journey together. Whether you plan your elopement a year in advance or decide to do it next week, you can know that your partner is taking this new adventure with you. I’ll also take this adventure with you if you need someone to capture it!

It’s Okay to Change Your Wedding Plans

One of my couples, Molly and LD, were originally planning a big wedding, but the universe works in magical ways, and everything aligned for them to say “I do” with just Molly’s parents as witnesses!! And, I was so happy that they decided to go for it!! This couple truly captured the magic of eloping! It was epic!! Molly and LD eloped at MacArthur Beach State Park, this beach is one of their favorite places they go together. They turned a place they already loved visiting into a spot that is now even more special for the two of them. Despite originally thinking a wedding was what they wanted, they were so happy with their decision to elope!

In the end only you and your partner know what’s best for you both. It’s a good idea, in my eyes, to take a step back to look at who are you really planning this wedding for? Is it for you and your partner or someone else?! This will help you decide what is the best for YOU and no one else!! Whether a eloping vs. wedding, your day will be special because you and your partner will make a commitment to each other. Ready to elope?! Let’s freaking do it ya’ll!! Take me along with you to capture the moment. Inquire now to secure your date! I can’t wait to hear from you so so soon!